Jaxon's First Trip to ER and First Day at School

So after 20minutes at Schlitterbahn, little man fell backwards off the picnic table. I have seen a lot of bumps (some even on tile). There is something about hearing your child's head slam into cement. The fall was 4feet and my heart stopped, everything was then in slow motion. We first went to the local hospital, but waiting room was full and not many people moving in and out. So we drove him back to Austin to Dell Children's. Waiting room was empty so he was seen really quickly. He had not lost conciousness and was not showing any other signs of a severe head injury, so no CT was ordered. He just has some broken blood vessels under the skin and a pretty good knot. He must get his hard head from me;) YEAH!!

So that was our planned trip to Schlitterbahn.

Today he had his first day of school. He did great, but fell asleep in my arms before we left the building. Rheagan is excited about having her baby brother at her school.

Happy Birthday Jaxon!!

My little man has turned 1. I can not believe how fast time flies. He is such a sweet baby. He is adored by his big sister. He can say a few words, but still won't say "mama," he just pats me instead. His birthday was on the 11 and we had plan to celebrate today. Well it did not turn out the way we planned. The whole family came down with a cold. Jaxon's led to a secondary infection which is pretty common with preemies. We were busy giving him breathing treatments and making sure his fever was down. I felt horrible and did not feel like I was the greatest nurse/mother for him. Matt was a huge help through it all, such an awesome daddy! Rheagan still has a cough. We canceled most of todays activities, but still had the cake that was preordered. Jaxon thought it was pretty cool, while big sister Rheagan blew out the candle for him.

September 14, 2008

Jaxon is now 10months old and is getting to be such a big boy. His first word is while shaking his hand "awlll du" for all done. He is also waving "bye bye." He does not have any teeth yet, but I think he is working on it.

Matt and I took the kids to Giddings for a visit at Grandpa and Grandma's. They also were able to see Great Grandma Joyce, Great Grandma Kurio, Uncle Justin, and Matt's cousin Kristin and her son Hunter. They were both warn out and fell asleep on the way home.

Matt's mom gave me a bag of bread mix she concocted to see if my bread machine is actually broken or if it is bad yeast. Well we have risen bread woohoo! No hard ball of lump today. I found some great recipes online as well.

Here are pictures from yesterday and "unbroken bread machine" bread!

Sometimes the Pain Hits Out of Nowhere!

It has been a while since I posted to the blog. I don't want let all my avid readers down LOL!! Well in case you did not know, I lost my Dad on June 27. Although I was emotional around the time of his death and during the funeral, I have had a hard time letting go of the grief. I had felt like I needed to be the one to comfort and reassure the rest of my family. My Mom stayed with me from the time of the funeral until late August. The day she left, I bawled like a big baby, and have cried every day since.
I still feel my his presence, I have felt his big hands rubbing my shoulders, and his voice so many times in my head.
I thought this was pretty neat. I normally do not speed especially with my babies in the car. Well I was late for an appointment and started off speeding down the highway. I heard clear as day, my father's voice "you better slow down girl, you have got such precious cargo in this car, why would you chance it" I immediately slowed down and the next intersection was a State Trooper. So I got the reminder of my precious cargo, and since I listened I did not get a ticket. Thanks Dad!
To me he was a great Dad, Papa, and Friend. I miss him dearly.

our journey to parenthood, what a ride ehh???

it was 3 years ago that we started our family, we brought Rheagan home in april of 2005. the space between then and now seems so vast, it doesn't seem possible that it all fit into three years, and yet it has.

every year at this time i start thinking about how are lives have changed since then. i have come here to try to find the right words to express how i feel. the journey we have been on, to have our family. matt and i tried to conceive for 6 years before bringing rheagan home. the losses are remembered but the pain is healing over time. every year i feel something different. this year finds me heavy with thoughts of others that are suffering from infertility right now, those that are just beginning the journey. we are so grateful to have had the funding to bring rheagan home. i feel for the people who don't - as adoption in any form is expensive (especially after draining your bank account from fertility treatments) 3 years and two healthy children later i have a different perspective, i wish i could share that with them. i wish i could press a fast forward button and show them that time really does heal, joy really is possible. it probably wouldn't make a difference though, i know back then i wasn't ready to hear that, i wouldn't have believed it. there are no words that someone else can say to make you understand the journey, it is something you simply need to endure so that one day you can come out the other side healed, changed, but better somehow. more aware. seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.

i am also thinking about the other babies that need homes. oh how i wish i was a millionaire.
i pray that people open their eyes and mind to adoption. that they never slam that door. what an amazing little girl we have. she has come so far, and she is healing every day too. she patted my stomach yesterday. here was a little of the conversation "i didn't grow in there. did i?"
me: "no, you didn't"
rheagan: "i grew in another lady's tummy. right mom?"
me: "yes, you did"
rheagan: "in russia?"
me: "yes in russia"
rheagan: "what was her name mommy?"
me: "honey I am not sure but her last name was Solovieva"
rheagan: "suluvvviieva"
me: "close enough"
rheagan: "i am glad you and daddy came to get me"

my heart has never felt this many emotions. i teared up, but did not let her see. i hope one day she knows how much our hearts ached to have her in our arms. how not one day went by without us thinking of her (even before her picture). how she has brought so much light into our lives and into the lives of people around us. i pray that she grows up happy and healthy (body and soul). we are teaching her about God and how he is bigger than everyone and that He loves here so much. we are also teaching her about Jesus. for just being 4, i think she is getting it!!

i don't know what life will hold for me, mothering a daughter, but i feel so grateful that i get to find out instead of always wondering.

and now being blessed with a boy!! jaxon came into our lives and brought with him the last bit of light that we needed to feel the warmth on our faces again. i am so thankful for all that we have been given so far in this life, it is a good one and i wouldn't change it for the world.

more babies? who knows, but right now we are trying to enjoy each minute with the ones we have been given to parent. so all in all i think infertility in a strange way was good for my and matt's soul. i would have not been able to say that 9 years ago. our children came into our live at just the right time. the losses matt and i endured along the way are not forgotten, but i know we would not have our precious rheagan and jaxon had we not gone through infertility first.

Why Use Cloth

Why Use Cloth

USE CLOTH DIAPERS AND SAVE OVER $1000! On average, you will spend $2000 on disposable diapers per child. Compare that to an average of $700 (that includes laundering expenses) for your first child's diapering years using cloth diapers. A second and third child will cost much less, as many of the diapers can be re-used. Depending on the diaper system you use you can spend a little less or more than the above mentioned amount for your first child.

USE CLOTH DIAPERS AND REDUCE DIAPER RASH! Diaper rash is seldom a problem when using cloth diapers. Cloth diapers are more breathable and cloth diapered babies are changed more often, as the diaper starts feeling damp after (on average) 4 hours. Disposable diapers mask the wetness, therefore child care providers and parents have no indication of how long the child has been wearing a wet or poopy diaper. This, together with the fact that disposable diapers become much hotter, allows more rapid bacterial growth which can cause diaper rash. If your baby has sensitive skin the reaction to the chemicals in disposable diapers may also contribute to diaper rash.

CLOTH DIAPERS ARE FAST AND EASY TO USE - UNIQUE FASTENER/LINER SYSTEM! The new styles of cloth diapers now available are as easy to use as a disposable. The added effort of doing two additional loads of laundry per week is worth the many benefits for your child, your pocketbook and the environment.

CLOTH DIAPERS ARE COOL & COMFORTABLE FOR BABY! Cloth diapers are soft and comfortable made of natural, chemical free, very absorbent fibers. Most diapers are made of cotton. Sometimes hemp is used. Unlike disposable diapers, cloth diapers stay cool even on the hottest summer day.

POTTY TRAINING IS EASIER WITH CLOTH DIAPERS! On average cloth diapered children potty train 6 months earlier than children wearing disposable diapers. Cloth diapers do not mask the sensation of wetness.

CLOTH DIAPERING FITS ANY LIFESTYLE! Cloth diapering easily adapts to fit even the busiest lifestyle or any full time daycare situation.

CLOTH DIAPERS ARE THE HEALTHY ALTERNATIVE - SAFER FOR NEW DELICATE SKIN! Cloth diapers don't contain any of the harmful chemicals that disposables are loaded with. See "how dangerous are disposable diapers".
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Cloth Diapers are better for your baby!

Your child will spend the first 2 1/2 to 3 1/2 years of his or her life in diapers. Disposable diapers are an easy way of diapering, but are the possible health hazards these diapers pose worth the simplicity? Look below at some studies that have been conducted and their scary results.

MALE INFERTILITY Disposable diapers could be the cause of the sharp rise in male infertility over the past 25 years. It is thought that disposable diapers heat up boys testicles to such a degree that it stop them from developing normal.

SODIUM POLYACRYLATE, which is linked to Toxic Shock Syndrome and can therefore no longer be used in tampons, is the super absorbent gel in disposable diapers. You can find the little "gel balls" on the skin of your baby's bottom. It is interesting to note that employees in factories manufacturing sodium polyacrylate suffer from female organ problems, slow healing wounds, fatigue and weight loss.

TBT (TRIBULYTIN) In May 2000 Greenpeace found TBT in Pampers® Baby Dry in Germany. TBT is one of the most toxic substances ever made. It harms the immune system and impairs the hormonal system. There is speculation that it could cause boys to become sterile.

DIOXIN (This is a major component in Agent Orange!) Traces of the carcinogen Dioxin have been found in disposable diapers. Dioxin causes liver disease, immune system suppression and genetic damage. It is a byproduct of bleaching with chlorine gas and is banned in most countries. Unfortunately, the USA still allows it.

ASTHMA In 1998 a study showed that childhood respiratory problems, including asthma, might be linked to inhaling the mixture of chemicals emitted from disposable diapers.

UTI INFECTIONS IN BABY GIRLS also seem on the rise with an increased use of disposable diapers.

BABIES POORLY DEVELOPED OUTER SKIN LAYER ABSORBS ABOUT 48 CHEMICALS if you use disposable diapers & wipes and standard baby products. This can be greatly reduced by using cloth diapers and natural baby products.


Cloth Diapers are better for the Environment!

Every child adds a minimum of 6500 disposable diapers (30% of which is non biodegradable) to our landfills. Included in the soiled diapers are many of pounds of raw fecal matter. Viruses found in the feces can pose a threat to our water supplies and wild life, by seeping through cracks that sometimes develop in landfills.

The manufacturing of disposable diapers poses another threat to our environment, requiring large quantities of wood pulp (trees) and dangerous complex chemical substances, which leave behind many harmful byproducts.

Compare all that to the resources used to make and clean three to five dozen cloth diapers with no raw fecal matter!

Milestones

Jaxon turned 6 months this past Sunday! Here are pics from that day. Rheagan had her 4yr shots which are horrible, and Jaxon his 6month. They have been miserable, but seem to be better now. Jaxon has been drooling like crazy and running a low grade temp. I think he is most likely teething. He started rice cereals this past week, and the pedi says he can now start other foods and to go ahead and give him prunes, squash, sweet potatoes, and apples. She also said not to worry about allergies. I am still going to introduce them every 2-3 days. He had apples last night and did not seem to care much for them. He got mad everytime I put the spoon in his mouth :)

Rheagan is doing much better. She is more comfortable in the water at swimming lessons YA!! She still has a long way to go before she is swimming, but she will get there.